Monday, September 18, 2006

Making Lemonade

Let me start out with the good stuff. Yesterday our group traveled 3 hours north of Hanoi to Ha Long Bay. On the way we saw beautiful, lush countryside. Even on a Sunday, the farmers were out in their paddies tending to their crops as water buffalo soaked in the cool water. We stopped at a center where many young people were hand crafting unique and beautiful artwork. We watched them making hand embroidered pictures. From a distance they look like paintings, but when you get closer you can see the texture. I couldn’t believe what they could do with a piece of canvas, needle, and thread. The Vietnamese people have a great appreciation for art.

To say that Ha Long Bay is amazing and stunning is an understatement. It may be the most awesome thing I have seen – and I think I have seen a lot. Our group had a private boat for 4 hours. We docked for 30 minutes to tour a cave on one the islands. A seafood lunch was served on the boat. They had a few “turf” items that I could eat. The seafood spread definitely looked better (if you like that stuff). The bay area is so vast that our guide said that it would take days of sailing to see all of it. New resorts are being built along the beach and overnight boat tours are common. Maybe we’ll come back and vacation there someday…

Sarah has developed an upper repertory infection. Lots of sneezing (blowing out mucus), coughing, wheezing…. We feel so bad for her! We have a doctor and a nurse in our group and they both assure me that I should not give her any medicine because her body can fight it off. It is just hard to watch her suffer. Despite her cold, she has remained in good spirits. She is only fussy when she is too tired. But, she always wakes up on the right side of the bed. Michael says that two out of three Homans wake up happy. Ha, ha!

We have some new developments in our adoption time-line. Today we were told that we would not get our visa interview until a week from this Wednesday, so obviously we will not be returning to the States on Thursday. This is a fine example of US government efficiency!!!! Our embassy only does Visa interviews 3 days a week, and apparently only so many per day. We were told that if we had been 5 minutes later in applying for our appointment, we would have had to wait 2 weeks! They are understaffed with many families needing interviews. After the interview, they issue the visa 24-48 hours later. We are praying that it only takes 24 hours to issue it and that we can fly out Thursday night. If not, we will have trouble getting a flight home until Sunday, October 1. I can’t remember all the details with the airlines, but it was something about not enough seats and missing connections based on departure times. Not sure…. We’ll keep you updated.

We have been staying at the Melia Hotel, which is beautiful, but way too expensive for all the families. Tomorrow we are all moving to a hotel that is $75 less per night and closer to the lake and old quarters. It also has free internet (we’ve been paying $12/day at the Melia) and cheaper laundry services. Just to wash a pair of pants at this hotel is almost $4. That is why I have been doing laundry in the bath tub.

Today we were dealt lemons, but we’re doing our best to make lemonade. We are making plans to take the night train to the northern highlands and to a town called Sapa, where many of the hill tribes live. I’m sure you can Google it and learn more about the area. Tomorrow we will check into prices and accommodations. So far two other families are interested in going with us. We’ll let you know how it works out. We’ve got nothing else going on around here and over a week of time to pass.

Thanks for all your comments. We love reading them each day and being reminded of home. Now is when we are most thankful to have this group of families to be with. As I write, Natasha and I are hanging out with our sleeping babies. Our husbands have been good about letting us have “mommy alone time” so now they are having theirs.

10 comments:

erinlo said...

I am so so sorry for all of you. I really truly can relate to what you are feeling right now. When we found out we would be there a week longer, I took a day to cry and feel sorry for myself and then we did exactly what ya'll are doing.....our best to make lemonade out of lemons. I have not been able to comment on Craig and Chaunta's blog, but will you please let them know I thinking and praying for all of you right now. I'm sorry this is happening. I will look forward to reading about how ya'll decide to spend your time. Oh- one thing we wish we had done that we didn't do is have suits made for Jeff. We heard that in Hanoi you can find a tailor who will custom make suits for $50. Don't know if anyone in your group could take advantage of that- jsut a thought.
Praying for all of you!
Erin L.

Papa Roy said...

Heather, Michael and Sarah, Sorry to hear Sarah is not feeling well. However, given the amount environmental change she has experienced she has done very well -- now lets hope she gets feeling better soon. Nice to have some medical advise in your group.

While it is disappointing that your return has been delayed it is but a bump (today it seems quite large but tomorrow--) in the long road of life. You all have a terrific attitude about it -- good for you. We will be praying your next schedule will be as planned.

Enjoy your new hotel -- sounds like it is in a nice place and certainly priced better for an extended stay. Lots of Love

grandma homan said...

Our hearts sank when we read about your extended stay.Lemonade is good.And good will come out of this. We will go through life always having our faith tested. The end results will be worth it.

Meredith B. said...

1 extra week of vacation right?! I'm sad I won't be seeing you all this week, but it sounds like you both have such a great attitude about everything!! sarah is so much fun to look at, i've shown michael this site and he keeps talking about how cute she is as well. :) we miss you guys--see you SOON!!

Chuck and Jean Anne said...

Michael and Heather...

So sorry to hear that little Sarah is sick. It's so tough when they're this young.

And sorry for the delay...but y'all have the right attitude. Just make the best of it...nothing else you can really do.

Chin up cheer up!

-chuck

p.s.

Michael...I had to repent numerous times after the OU game. Ten times worse than the botched call in the Texas Tech game last year. Oh my brother...oh my.

Anonymous said...

Heather and Michael,

I love the pictures! Can hardly wait until you all get back home with Sarah. What a wonderful experience this is, even with some trying moments. You can be sure that many prayers are going out for each one of you, and that little Sarah will quickly be healed of her illness!

Love ya,
Pat Matthews

Grandma Barbara said...

Lemons grow so one can add their own sugar and make lemonade or a great lemon pie....and that's what you are doing! Enjoy the "final" product! We would have preferred you had gotten to return this week, but....

Little Sarah doesn't appear to be letting her cold stop her from enjoying life. Her little friend is so cute, too. Great photo of their interaction.

Ha Long Bay must be incredible. Photos are lovely. I have heard of the handwork the people in that area do. So great that there are still parts of the world where these talents can be done and people be able to ink out a living.

Have fun moving once again. Perhaps you'll find places to go visit and stay in other parts of Vietnam for a few days.

Michael, those refs for the OU game have been given a one-week suspension....interesting.

We will check with Josh to see how Rosie and he are doing.

I'm going to Liberty tomorrow. I'll try to print off a photo or two.

Missing all of you, MOM

Ryan and Heather said...

The pictures of Vietnam look so beautiful and of course your family is stunning!! Have fun and enjoy the rest of your trip-this is a trip of a lifetime-who knows when you'll get to see the country of your daughters birth again! Take it all in and enjoy it!

Anonymous said...

Heather and Michael, it has been an added blessing to learn of your story as you add little Sarah to your family. Hope she is feeling better. Perhaps the nurse you are refering to is my wife, Amber. She and my sister Susan are traveling with you. Your journal along with the pics have been a real blessing to me and the kids. We will continue to pray for the details of returning home as well. God Bless! John, Jake and Jess

Nathan & Katie Salsbery said...

Mike and Heather,

I really enjoyed reading about your trip...what an incredible experience. I loved the pictures as well. Sarah is a beautiful little girl! Katie and I look forward to seeing you again and meeting Sarah. May God bless your family as you begin the wonderful experience of parenthood.

Nathan Salsbery