Friday, September 21, 2007

A new normal

A year ago we became 1st time parents, nearly 8 months later we became parents for the 2nd time, and now 5 months after that we are..............................finally starting to feel like we are living a normal life. (Were you nervous that I was going to announce something else?) Granted, it's a normal we have never experienced before. But, it is a small feeling of sanity and we will gladly take it! On the 17th Drew turned 5 months old and we feel like we are over the hump, or close to it. Most of the colic symptoms are gone, we are all sleeping longer (those 12 hour nights didn't last, though), we can tell that he feels better, and he is just coming alive. As a 5 month old, Drew is able to entertain himself a little bit better with toys and interact more with people. My favorite new thing is that Andrew is becoming more of a cuddle and snuggle bug. This is very important to a mother! This week Andrew started eating baby food. I can't believe that it is already time! Since we have already been putting rice cereal in his bottles, I decided that it wouldn't make sense to have that be his first spoon-fed food. So, he has been eating carrots. And, he's eating like a pro. Is he not adorable?

Sarah is at a very fun age, albeit, challenging. Oh, the wonder of being two! It truly is a foreshadowing of adolescence. One minute she's laughing and the next she is on the verge of an emotional crisis. She actually enjoys her timeout chair and sending her to the chair is almost like pressing the re-start button on her. She is back to calm and happy after timeout. Sometimes, if I have the baby in my arms and I can't physically put Sarah in timeout, I'll just tell her to go to timeout. Sarah will actually go and get her little chair, face it towards the corner, and sit down. Sometimes I even find her "playing" timeout. She'll go back to the spot where she got in trouble, shake her head no, then go to timeout. Then, she does the "all done" sign with her hands and gets down from the chair. Oh, but Sarah is a stubborn thing. As all two year olds do, she has selective hearing and obeys in slow motion (or, not at all).

Both the kids are going to an early learning center this school year the 3 days a week that I work. I was really nervous after I went to the open house for Sarah's class. Most of the kids in her class were a head taller and more verbal. Also, the kids eat sitting in a regular chair at a table and take a short nap laying on a mat. I don't consider myself to be overprotective, but I was pretty worried that it would be too much for her. After all, she still eats in a highchair, sleeps in a crib, naps for 1.5 to 2 hours, and has fewer words than a lot of 2 year olds. But, my worries were completely unfounded. Sarah has done beautifully in school and her vocabulary is growing so fast that I can't keep up with it anymore.

We have very slowly started to introduce the potty to Sarah. She is very intrigued and usually asks to go sit on the potty right after she goes in her diaper. So, we're working on a timing issue. She has a little Dora potty ring that sits on the toilet. She loves it so, so much. So much, that half the time she is wearing it on her head. That might be our other problem with the potty training - lol!

Sometime, when the night is younger, I'll have to share two funny Sarah stories that friends have encouraged me to post. I'll call one Swiper, No Swiping and the other Soggy Dreams.

5 comments:

Daniel and Jamie said...

I am so glad that Andrew is doing so well. He is way cute! Sarah and Luke sound like they are going through the same stage. This week has been exhausting with him. My sweet, obedient baby boy has had lots of moments being not so sweet and obedient. I really don't like having to get on to him all the time. Hopefully we can get some new boundary lines established soon.
I can't wait to see y'all again so I can hear all of Sarah's new words. And I don't think I've heard the Swiper story. Oh, and the wanting to sit on the potty after you pottied - Luke was naked last weekend and told me he needed to potty so as I was walking to the bathroom he ran and got under the end table and pooped on the floor. Very gross and he got in trouble.
See y'all soon!

Adam, Natasha & Avi Joy said...

Seriously the first Sarah paragraph had me almost in tears from laughter. I love the 'playing time-out.'
The update was great, its amazing that lil'drew is ready for food.
See you soon!
N

Casey said...

I couldn't help but laugh about Sarah minding in slow motion. Olivia does the exact same thing. Drives me crazy :<) Sounds like we both have a couple of characters. I rarely read any Dillon blogs anymore, so I'm happy to see that your family is doing so well. You have two very beautiful children!

ShellyW said...

I love the minding in slow motion! It's so true. Just as I think Khoa is totally ignoring me, he'll get up and do what I asked. Glad that the baby is doing well and that Sarah is liking school.

Ly and John said...

I am glad they are both doing so well. Normal is a great thing :-) They are both adorable. We miss you all.