We just returned home on Monday evening from a family vacation to the Smoky Mountains just outside of Gatlinburg, TN. We were looking forward to refreshing mountain weather, but instead we were greeted with record temps - including heat indexes in the low 100’s. I guess it is just hot everywhere! Despite that, we had beautiful surroundings and a great 4 bed/bath, two story log cabin nestled in the foothills. We shared the cabin for 5 nights with Michael’s parents and his brother Chuck’s family. Chuck and his wife Susan have the most adorable 16 month old son, Joshua. Despite being about 8-9 months apart in age, Joshua and Sarah played so well together. They are just about the same size and seemed to enjoy the same toys and games. Joshua is also a very verbal for a boy of his age, so he taught Sarah a few new words.
This was our first experience traveling/vacationing with small children (other than our travels for both adoptions). I do believe that the kitchen sink was packed somewhere in the minivan. Of course, I brought way too much stuff – including some cooler weather apparel. I guess it was just wishful thinking. Michael and I were definitely “schooled” this week with the challenges that come with traveling with little ones. Both the kids seemed to regress a little. Andrew cried a lot more and had a major flare-up of his reflux. Sarah had a hard time adjusting to sleeping in new surroundings. So, well rested, we are not! But, we had many fun times and great memories with family were made. That is the most important thing. I haven’t had the chance to spend much time with my sister-in-law, Susan, and we discovered that we have a lot in common. We had a couple of nice shopping excursions together, many good laughs, and some inside jokes.
On our drive home we went to Louisville, KY to see my brother and his family. Brian and Kathy’s daughter, Lauren (4 yrs. old), was so excited to have her cousins come to play. It was funny to watch her try to teach Sarah to play “tea set” and dance, among other things because Sarah just looked at her with great puzzlement. A two year age span makes a pretty big difference when playing together. But, Lauren was very patient with Sarah and seemed to love having all of us there. Lauren has been blessed with two things: high intelligence and a great sense of humor. So, her level of joking around is more advanced than your average 4 year old - which kept us all amused. But, her love of Disney princesses clearly shows that she is still very much a 4 year old girl. Kathy cooked some pretty amazing meals while we were there and we really enjoyed their hospitatliy.
Before we left for vacation we were able to have a mini-reunion with two VN adoptive families and our agency’s in-country attorney/director, Thomas, who was visiting the states. He is the sweetest Vietnamese man. We had great fun introducing him to American food and culture. I think the highlight of his night was seeing the kids on this side of the adoption process – home and thriving in loving families. Since the reception dates for Thomas fell during our vacation, we were so thankful for the opportunity to see him before we left town. We have a very special place in our heart for Thomas and all he did for our daughter and family.